Last Minute Resistance (Before SEX)

Situation
Okay, you’re sitting with a girl on your bed. You are making out with her. This is a good sign that she is willing to have sex with you. So you try to move things forward – and just as things were getting exciting she stops you and says: “We shouldn’t do this” or “Wait! This is going to fast...”. This is the last minute resistance, that woman gives just prior to sex – just before the point of no return!

Evolution and Psycology
In this article, I’m going to teach you how to overcome the Last Minute Resistance (or LMR). But first let’s look at it in an evolutionary and instinctive perspective. Women are much more controlled by their emotions and what they feel is right – not if it’s the smartest thing to do, like men respond to. Women’s emotions are programmed by instincts. Women are running a BIG risk when having sex for the first time with a new guy. Her instincts know that if she has sex – she might get pregnant and that is nine month of hard work. Or course there’s many forms of contraception today, but her instincts don’t know that.
Now, I could go on and on about explaining the female psychic but that’s not the issue here. But her main concern is, are you going to leave if she has sex with you! So you have to show her that you will stick around after she has sex with you. Because alot of guys just walk away. (I will not explain why we walk away, at this time - but maybe in another review)
Overcoming LMR (Theory)
When she is getting LMR it is your job to help her through it. There are three main things you can do:

1. Simply ignore what she is saying and keep moving forward. You can also use “two steps back, one step forward”-theory which I will explain in another article.

2. (if she is still resisting) Try dirty talk! Like this: Her: "Oh God... we shouldn't be doing this..."You: "You're right... we shouldn't do this... it's so bad..." or simply try to agree with what she is saying – because if you start arguing with her – Her brain will start making up arguments – and we DON’T want that!

3. Do a Freeze-out! Simply stop what you’re doing and do something else – Seem, suddenly, just a little bit uninterested in her. Freeze-outs are deadly but do it with caution. It might backfire. But the thing is, if you’re pushing her away when she says stop. It’s much more uncomfortable being pushed away then to be moving forward – if executed properly it’s a very powerful tool. So after a bit of freeze-out, just try again.

Also good to know
· Usually LMR is a sign of you moving to fast! So just back up a little, keep kissing her and keep working her breasts maybe – then try it again. Usually girls need to kiss some time before their are ready to have sex – about 10 minutes or so – but some girls need a lot more then that (1 hour).

· It’s also very important you have a smooth progression of escalation (from first kiss to sex). There shouldn’t be any BIG MOVES. It should feel natural to both of you.
If everything else fails – just start doing something else or just go to sleep! – Usually you’ll both wake up later and have sex –I’ve field tested it myself, and it works!

Congratulations! You now have the tools overcome LMR.