Standout from the crowd!

Don’t be afraid to standout from the crowd when you’re out picking up girls. One crucial thing to remember is to be noticed by the girls, immediately, when you step into a room. “Peacocking” [1]is a great way to do this – but there’s a simple and easy mindset you can use also. Try doing the opposite of what all the others are doing – In fact, you should be the exception to the rule! For instance, if people aren’t dancing, then you should start dancing. That way, you’ll standout from the crowd and girls will notice you! But when you do something others aren’t doing, it’s very important to do it all the way – without hesitation, without uncertainty! Otherwise it will look stupid. When you do something remarkable (worth to make a remark a bout) it should be done like it was no BIG DEAL! In fact, you should FEEL that it’s no big deal! If you’re too scared from anxiety, you will need to overcome your fear and just-do-it. The only way to overcome fear is to face your fear. For instance, if your really scared of looking like a fool – try make your self look like a fool (for real) just for the ‘fuck’ of it! – If you do it enough times, make yourself look like a fool, then at some point you don’t care anymore.

AA (Approach Anxiety)

If you’re having problems with approach anxiety of any sorts – you should try to make your self look like a fool until you don’t care anymore. Because if you don’t care if you make yourself look like a fool – you can’t loose, actually! Another way to overcome AA is the ‘3-Seconds-rule’ [2],

"It’s better to be looked over then to be overlooked!” Erik Von Markovik aka. Mystery (Seduction Guru)

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[1] Mystery’s theory of PEACOCKING. Just like a male peacock spreads his feathers and shows them off to catch female attention, a male human can display clothing and accessories that catch the attention of human females.

[2] 3 seconds rule – Theory by Mystery. http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/01_The_Basic_Rules/3seconds.shtml.